Saving money is ruining my social life

In the past year, I've cleaned up my finances a lot. When I was unexpectedly fired from my old job

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I got a new job within a few weeks of losing my old job, and it paid better, so that was nice.

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But I'm so worried about getting into a bad situation again that I've focused on achieving financial goals

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I am proud of my progress. But it also takes time and takes up a lot of my mental energy.

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Recently, a friend told me that this was affecting our friendship.

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She said that when she is around me she feels like she is being judged for her spending.

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He also pointed out that other people in our friend group felt the same way.

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I've noticed people reaching out to me less (and apparently hanging out without inviting me).

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And now I'm embarrassed that I'm causing trouble.

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